How much more time might we have if we talked less about others and even less about ourselves? How much better off might the world be without our opinions of what others should or should not have done? How much more deeply might our friends trust us knowing that our deliberate choice to see only the best in others translates into deliberate choice to see only the best in them? How many conversations might not take place at all if we really were as well-intentioned as we claim to be?